Here are 25 steps on the subject of writing about sex that are probably better than any I could dream up. I know, I am just a lazy bugger and couldn’t be arsed to use my imagination. Either that or I’m still in the missionary position!

http://terribleminds.com/ramble/2013/04/30/25-humpalicious-steps-for-writing-your-first-sex-scene-by-delilah-s-dawson-author-of-wicked-as-she-wants/

“Writing is like sex. First you do it for love, then you do it for your friends, and then you do it for money.” Virginia Woolf

Sex is interesting but not totally important. I mean, it’s not even as important (physically) as excretion. a man can go 70 years without a piece of ass but he can die in a week without a bowel movement. Charles Bukowski, Notes of a Dirty Old Man

Sex and a cocktail: they both lasted about as long, had the same effect, and amounted to about the same thing. D H Lawrence, Lady Chatterlesy’s Lover